Friday, January 31, 2014

On behalf of the Christians everyone loves to hate




I'm pouring out my heart today on behalf of Christians.

Yes those Christians.

The Christians everyone loves to hate.

The ones, who sit in the same pew every Sunday with their perfect hair and perfect clothes and their hands folded neatly in their laps, while their eyes seemingly searching out every fault in the lives of their fellow Christians and the world around them.

The religious-minded Christians who have become modern Pharisees. Every church has a few.

Why would I stand up on behalf of these Christians, who most would argue rightly deserve every bit of hate that comes their way?

Because in our zeal to follow Christ's example of unconditional love toward the world around us, so many of us seem to have forgotten that these brothers and sisters in Christ, flawed though they may be, need that unconditional love poured out on them as well.

We have taken the easy path of love.
 
We zealously proclaim love for all mankind, but fail to love these brothers and sisters in Christ.

In truth, loving a stranger is easy. When we haven’t seen a person’s faults, up close and personal, love flows naturally from the heart of a Christ-follower.

Maintaining a loving relationship, on the other hand, with someone, who is sometimes hateful, irrational, or judgmental, is extremely difficult to do.

But, as members of the body of Christ, His church -- whether you want to be identified with these Christians or not -- that is exactly what we’re called to do.

Love.

Beyond faults.

Beyond sins.

Beyond religious and judgmental attitudes.

We are called to be members of a unified church.

And yet, with an uprising of proclaimed love for the world around us, the church, itself, seems to be falling apart at the seams.

Lovers of Christ seem to be leaving in droves.
 
Walking away in disgust of deeply ingrained religious practices that, no doubt, need to be addressed, but never will be if those of us who see through the lens of love leave congregations in a mass exodus.

If we give up on the church how are we any better than the religious-minded Christians who seem to have given up on the world around them?

We’re not.

Is our stance of loving Christ but hating Christians really any different than their failed stance of hating the sin but not the sinner?

No. It’s not.

I read recently that the church, as a whole, should change that phrase to read love the sinner, not the sin.

I whole-heartedly agree.

And while we’re at it, perhaps we could attempt to love the Christian, not their religion.

Perhaps we could attempt to love even our judgmental and harsh Christian brothers and sisters with the same passionate love that we so desire to see poured out by them on the downtrodden world around us.

Love is certainly the answer, as we all love to proclaim.

But love isn't really love if it doesn't extend to all humanity.

That includes the church. The whole church.

In our efforts to love the world around us, let’s not forget the Christians that everyone loves to hate.  

You never know. We just might warm some cold hearts.

After all, even some of the Pharisees, were changed by the love of Christ.